Submitted by: Anthony Malibu

Getting your ex boyfriend back can be scary and frustrating. You might not know how he feels about you, and may question whether or not he even wants to date you again. In an effort to win him over, you’ll worry about when and how you should be making contact, as well as what you should say when you talk to your ex again. If your ex hasn’t called yet, here’s what you should know.

Breakups are always different, but the reconciliation process always starts the same way: re-establishing contact with your ex boyfriend. Should you contact your ex? How long should you wait? And are there ways of getting him to dial you up first? Many women are faced with the same problem after a breakup: My ex boyfriend hasn’t called me. This is invariably followed up with the same question: Should I call him?

Before worrying about whether or not you should get in touch with your ex, you’ll first need to establish a situation in which your boyfriend misses you. When he actually wants to hear from you again, the results of your exboyfriend contact will be much more favorable. There are two things you need to do before even considering making such a phone call, and they’re listed below:

Create The Illusion That You’re Totally Over The Relationship

Chasing after your boyfriend? He’s never going to want you back. It’s human nature to want the things we can’t have, so the minute your ex thinks you’re walking away from the relationship… this is also the exact moment he considers being with you again. Sound strange? In a way it is. But when you’re always hounding your ex and trying to get him to change his mind about breaking up with you, he knows that he can have you back at any time. While he knows this, he’s going to keep you on the back burner… while he enjoys single life.

If you want your boyfriend back, you can’t show it. Don’t write him love notes or leave cards on his windshield… don’t even let him know you’re sweating him. By walking cleanly away from the romance, you’re giving the impression that you have better things to do. Many women are worried that not showing an interest in your ex boyfriend will cause him to not show any future interest in you, but in actuality the opposite effect takes place. The more you ignore someone? The more they need to know

why

. The more you don’t seem like you need them, the more they need you.

Instead of sitting around wondering why my ex boyfriend hasn’t called me, you should be creating an atmosphere in which

he needs to call you

. By staying strong after the break up is a critical part of getting your ex back. Let him know you’ve accepted the breakup. Hell, make it known that you’ve even

embraced

it. Allow him to hear about how thrilled you are to be single again – through friends or family or co-workers… however you have to do it. Because once he gets that impression, you’ll become a hell of a lot more attractive to him again.

Surround Your New Life in Mystery by Breaking All Contact

Establishing that you’ve moved on is made all the more effective when you’ve completely stopped talking to your ex. Instead of asking yourself when should I call him, you should be wondering when is my ex boyfriend going to call me! The no contact rule means just that – no communication with your ex in any way, shape, or form. Don’t email your exboyfriend thinking it’s okay. Don’t send him even one little text-message, not even to wish him happy birthday. When you first break up, staying completely silent is the only way to get your ex interested in what you’re doing again. Because while you’re still around in plain view? You’re actually prolonging the break up.

When you’ve stopped communicating with your ex boyfriend, guess what happens? Your ex will start to miss you. He’ll start thinking that you’ve moved on to bigger and better things, and chances are good that his situation has stood still. This will cause him to question the breakup, and maybe even want to call it off. His decision to end things doesn’t look so good when he realizes you’re not chasing after him or trying to get him back, but that in fact you’ve moved on to the point where you’re not even talking to him anymore.

Getting Your Exboyfriend To Call You After The Breakup

After getting dumped, it’s not uncommon to struggle with the question of initiating contact. Should I call him? How long should I wait before calling or texting him? Making the mistake of chasing your boyfriend down can actually scare him away for good. Guys feel strange and awkward after breaking up with you, which is why they want to be left alone for a little while. Unfortunately, this is when many girls feel the pressing need to try the hardest, thinking they can somehow change their exboyfriend’s mind.

If you’re sitting by the phone wondering why my ex boyfriend hasn’t called me yet, it’s because he needs some space. Wondering if you should call him yourself is not a good idea. That being said, eventually you’ll have to somehow get back in touch… just not right now. In order to get back together with your ex, you’ll need to reconnect – and you’ll want to make sure you do it at the right time.

The best type of reconnection? One in which you get your ex boyfriend to call you. There are several methods you can use to accomplish this, and there are some really great techniques for making him curious about you again. Your goal is to put yourself back in your ex’s head, but to do it indirectly so you don’t seem like you’re trying too hard. Also, by making him genuinely need to know what you’re up to, you can get him to initiate contact by phone, email, text-message, or whatever.

About the Author: There are 8 Individual Steps that will

Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend

, so find out what they are! By learning exactly what to do and exactly when to do it, you can map out a blueprint for successfully

Winning Your Boyfriend Back

, even when he hasn’t called yet.

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byAlma Abell

Massage therapy has been used by the public for its relaxing qualities and stress relieving capabilities for years, and the medical industry often uses the therapy for its healing elements as well. There are many techniques and applications, but the general purpose for all types of massage therapies generally have the same goal in mind. They draw their strategies from various cultures and principles, but massage therapy promotes a healthier lifestyle and a general state of wellness that targets the mind, body and soul. Thai Yoga Massage in Honolulu HI is rooted in the Indian systems of Ayurveda and yoga, and is a valuable part of traditional Thai medicine.

Dating back thousands of years, Thai massage was brought to Thailand about two thousand years ago. Thai massages seeks to restore balance and the natural flow of the body’s system according to Eastern healing traditions. Thai Yoga Massage Honolulu HI is an effective therapy for correcting posture, flexibility, breathing, circulation, digestion, and much more. The therapy technique stretches muscles, tones the inner organs, and significantly improves nervous tension and emotional stress. The therapy session is simple and very safe. Massage therapists rest on their clients’ bodies with their hands and they administer firm rhythmic pressure to gently stretch out the entire body. Clients often praise the therapy for the many health benefits it provides, but also the great sense of peace they feel after a session.

Thai-Issan Therapeutic Massage is a team of experienced massage therapists who utilize the ancient traditions and strategies to improve the overall health of their clients. Their beautiful facility has a backdrop of the stunningly beautiful island of Honolulu, and their facility is very cozy with an atmosphere that promotes healing and relaxation. As an added bonus, each therapy session includes a hot stone treatment as well. Heated stones are strategically placed on the body to loosen up muscles and create a balance of energy, and it is a great complement to the Thai Yoga Massage.

Thai-Issan Therapeutic Massage creates an experience for their clients that is often a complement to traditional medical treatments. When clients cannot find relief from certain ailments, they use Thai Yoga Massage as an alternative to medical treatments that have not provided the relief they are searching for. Thai Yoga Massage is a valuable therapy method that many people are beginning to explore for better health and more options for healing.

Submitted by: Martin Donnelly

Is distance healing really possible?

The idea that we are able to send healing to one another through time and space is a concept which can be very difficult to even fathom, let alone accept. It is an idea which seems almost science fiction like and is something which is often met with some doubt or perhaps disbelief.

But as we progress on our healing and meditative pathway, and as we start to do more and more distance healing sessions for people (with consistent results!), it does indeed become quite clear that whilst we may not understand this concept clearly enough, it definitely does seem to have a positive effect on the person receiving the distance healing.

We often hear of many success stories of people who are sending & receiving energy by distance and most notably we can see these stories appearing nowadays through the practice of Usui Reiki.

Understanding the process of an attunement

Now that we understand a little more about distance healing, the next step is to understand what an attunement does. What happens during an attunement and is this so different from distance healing?

For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term attunement, it is typically described as a very sacred process whereby the vibration of an individual (or a living thing) is being raised or attuned to a particular set of divinely guided energetic frequencies.

If that all sounds way too complicated, you may think of the attunement as being a process of receiving access to a very special set of energetic healing tools. Once you have received the attunement, you can then call on these healing frequencies through a variety of ways. Invariably, we are often taught to access these energies through meditation, self-healing and in doing healing work for others i.e. in a healing session environment.

In very basic terms, it is this giving access part which makes the attunement so sacred and so very blessed. By receiving an attunement, it can help to strengthen our connection to the energies being offered through a particular energy based healing system.

Why do I even need an attunement?

It is often said that you must receive an attunement from a fully qualified lineage holder of the energy based healing system you are learning before commencing with your practice. This is a most important point and it is sometimes something which some people ask why it is deemed to be so necessary.

From a philosophical perspective, we should be able to open ourselves up to receiving any kind of energy based healing practices without receiving an attunement. After all, we are all one inter-connected source of divine energy so how can anyone truly say that you cant connect with these energies? And this is most certainly a very valid point!

From a practical perspective though, if you try to practice any form of Reiki or energy based healing without the attunement, you are not really practising with the same intensity as you could be. You havent received the special access to these energies that the attunement provides you with.

As an analogy, you can think of the Reiki energies as being like the sun. You are the grass receiving the lovely sunlight on a clear sunny day. You are warm and receiving benefits. Now think of the attunement as a piece of glass which magnifies the suns rays so that you can quickly feel the heat. This is a good way of thinking about the attunement process and your teacher.

Can I receive an attunement by distance?

The answer here is a little bit of a grey area as we are seeing many newer forms of Reiki and energy based healing offering their attunements by distance. The more traditional forms of Reiki such as Usui Reiki and Karuna Reiki suggest that attunements be provided in person.

Most people would generally agree though that if you can give healing by distance then it is surely possible to also give and receive attunements by distance. And this does definitely seem to be a common-sense answer here, especially as we factor in the divinely guided aspects of these healing practices and the interconnected-ness of all.

Add to this a vast array of lovely and uplifting distance attunement experiences which have been given many times in these newer forms of Reiki (refer below) and you may start to lean towards the idea that to receive an attunement by distance is actually no different than receiving an attunement in person. As always, it is our intention which is so important after all.

From our own experiences, we would also add that the efficiency and effectiveness of the distance healing attunement also seems to strengthen as the senders vibration is raised and expanded.

So let us now look at a few examples of some of these newer forms of energy based healing where attunements can be received by distance. We note here also that most of these practices are offered by donation or suggested donation.

i) Celestine Reiki:

Celestine Reiki is a very uplifting and invigorating set of energies with all attunements being offered by distance and by donation. These attunements are being offered as part of the Unified Pathway To Light and help to connect you with the deeply loving and blissful energies of the new consciousness. The practices are very simple and deeply purifying and can be completed in around 10-15 minutes.

ii) Kundalini Reiki:

Brought through by Mr Ole Gabrielson in Denmark. This mode of healing is offered to recipients by distance for a suggested donation of around $40 per attunement. These attunements combine the Kundalini energies from within us with the universal energy which is Reiki to form Kundalini Reiki. This system is taught over 3 levels and often is less than a week. The healing practices are very simple and easy to learn.

iii) Pathway To Light – The Golden Mile

A series of very unique (and free!) healing attunements for the new consciousness – all offered for free online / by distance. In this system of healing, you are led through a series of healing based attunements which have been divinely designed to uplift your vibration closer towards the love of the new consciousness. There are no meditational or self-healing practices required and each attunement is completed in around 15 minutes. This is now being offered in one very simple and easy ebook format.

iv) Maitrijusha & Maitrijusha(Ni)

A beautiful addition to any healing toolkit. These teachings provide you with a beautiful cleanse as well as a set of two very special Master Healing energies which are used to combine other energetic frequencies. These teachings are best suited to people who are working with many forms of energy based healing.

Conclusions

Whether you can receive an attunement by distance or not depends on your own personal preferences and the type of energy based healing practice that you are wishing to receive an attunement for.

For those of you who are wishing to receive a Usui Reiki attunement, generally these are given in person, although you can now find different Reiki Masters on the internet willing to offer you attunements by distance.

For other energy based healing practices, as you can see from the above examples, you can find a number of different energy based healing systems that provide you with by distance attunements, often by donation (or suggested donation).

Please just take caution before you pay money to someone claiming to offer distance attunements. We would humbly suggest that you do an appropriate amount of inquiry first to ensure that you are in fact receiving an attunement rather than just an airy promise before you make your payment.

Please be sure to review any website carefully and examine whether there is love & light being offered to you in these practices and whether the Master is of a vibrational understanding of the practices that are being taught.

May this information help you on your quest towards more love & light in your life and may your journey forwards be filled with love, joy and happiness!

Namaste.

About the Author: Marty is a mediation consultant, divine assistant and humble seeker of truth and love. He is a Usui Reiki Master, Karuna Reiki Master, Kundalini Reiki Master, Lama Fera Master, a Vajrayana practitioner, a Unified Pathway To Light Teacher as well as a teacher of many other types of energy based healing. It is with love that he aims to inspire and empower people towards understanding their truly divine nature and now works as a co-founder of the not for profit organisation Love Inspiration –

loveinspiration.co.nz

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